How To Save Your Marriage As A Woman


Can Your Marriage Be Fixed?

"Two words. Three vowels. Four consonants. Seven letters .It can either cut you open to the core and leave you in ungodly pain or it can free your soul and lift a tremendous weight off your shoulders. The phrase is: it's over"
 by Maggi Richard

Every marriage doesn't reach the climax in being an everlasting, beautiful and glorious affair. Sometimes the strands of the marital relationship just break off for reasons known and at times, unknown. I have seen many couples struggling to save their marriage. Some tend to be successful in it, while others just fall apart. When this happens it's aftermath bring great maladies in the form of psychological imbalance, physical discomfort and so on. The list is endless and the pain associated with it too.

We have sorted out things to do as a woman to save that marriage that is on the verge of collapsing.

 1. Take out time to study your husband, finding out his likes/dislikes, what makes him happy or sad. 
This is because men tends to change. Those things you think your husband loves when you guys were dating might no longer be his favorite. I have heard many women made this statement "I don't understand my husband anymore, he doesn't behave how he used to when we were dating." You must learn to adapt to his new desire. Finding out what makes your husband happy and when you start doing those things, it tends to increase your husband's love for you because it makes him feel you have his best interest at heart.

 2. Men are visual beings and they need to be feed their eyes every now and then.
Some women after they get some men hooked through marriage, they just relax, they start adding weight, wearing unfitting clothes, leaving their hair undone for a very long time. So learn how to maintain your body, eat good food, have a diet timetable, go to the gym every weekend with your husband, buy clothes that looks attractive on you, try changing your hair occasionally, also try cooking what you know is his favorite.

Note: Men are like little babies, and should be followed with caution. A baby can be playing with a dull but when he sees another attractive dull he leaves that first one unless that first dull doesn't lose it value, this is one key reason men cheat on their wives. you must learn how to keep yourself attractive to your husband everyday because always know that your husband is your main priority and you are his before the kids.

 3. Avoid negative advises from friends and family that tends to break up your marriage.
60% of broken marriages are being caused by this factor, therefore close attention must be given to this, if possible cut off from such friendship, because your friends can either build you or destroy you. To know more about this read about my article on background noise

 4. Learn the principle of silent.
If you always talk back to your husband when he is talking to you angrily, it tends to cause more conflict or even fight between you two. So whenever your husband is being angry over an issue, weather you are right or not, obey the principle of silent. All men has pride in them and hate it when their pride is being threaten. So whenever a woman obeys the principle of silent, they begin to respect you as time goes on, because men always respect anyone that makes their egos happy. 

5. Involve God in the equation.
Many broken marriages can be spiritual. Marriage was God's plan for man, so always know that the devil isn't happy about this, and must tried in every way to see that peaceful and loving marriage turn out to be a war zone. So as a woman always know that God value you so much. I have search the scripture and I discovered that it only when a man finds a wife, he obtain goodness and favour from God. "Prov.18.22 - He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favour from the LORD." So always pray to God to intervene on your marriage whenever an issues rises up.